The Inner Game of Influence
The inner game of influence is your ability to: Recognize your own biases and patterns; Regulate your emotional responses under pressure; Remain teachable; Unlearn habits that no longer serve you; Step into a larger identity before you feel ready
The Counterintuitive Leadership Move That Makes People More Committed
Have you ever asked someone to take on a task or project and wondered if they’d actually follow through? What if the real key to increasing commitment is something completely counterintuitive-giving them the option to do nothing?
How Culture and Generation Determine Which Brain Listens First
Persuasion breaks down most often not because a message is weak but because it creates unnecessary mental effort.
How to Use Real Power in Business and Politics, Without Making More Noise
From boardrooms to ballot boxes, we don’t need more noise. We need more people who know how to hold, honor, and use their interpersonal power, ethically, intentionally, and unapologetically.
You Can’t Shortcut Growth — But You Can Shortcut Your Presentation
When it comes to giving a presentation — whether you’re standing on a conference stage, pitching a potential donor, leading a board meeting, or sharing a quarterly update — there are a few solid shortcuts you can take… and a lot you can’t.
The One-Line Shift That Opens Doors (Instead of Slamming Them Shut)
You know that moment when you say to someone, “Do you have a second?” or “We need to talk”—and you can almost feel the tension rise? Because what you’ve actually triggered isn’t curiosity, it’s caution.
The Subtle Skill That Turns Confusing Conversations Into Collaborative Breakthroughs
If you’ve ever been in a conversation, whether with a donor, a client, a colleague, or even a family member, where someone says something that just doesn’t land, you’re not alone. If there’s a misunderstanding, mirror the moment to signal curiosity and request clarity.
The Power Phrase That Defuses Tension and Builds Influence
When you’re in a high-stakes meeting — maybe with a donor hesitating on a gift, a client pushing back on price, or a team member shutting down under pressure instead of pushing harder or pulling back, name what you see to build trust, connection and influence.
Does your Initiative or Product look like a Risk Instead of an Opportunity?
Every major movement, every breakthrough product, every seven-figure campaign, and every high-performing initiative starts small.
And fortunately, there’s a science-backed way to talk about early traction without hurting momentum — one that fits perfectly with the ethical influence principles I teach in my work.
It’s called future social proof.
Trust Is the Key to a Safe Space Where You Can Thrive
The people we place our trust in have tremendous influence over our outcomes, our relationships, careers, businesses, health, and even our ability to feel safe. That makes trust more than just a warm and fuzzy feeling. It’s a powerful force that determines how we move through the world.